The "M" Word

At this stage in my life I am focusing more on my career, deciding what I really want for myself and trying to be all that God created me to be. The balance in striving for success in those areas is hard to manage.

Then I have the other side of life that is a relationship, potentially having children one day but my reality is I don't know what that life looks like. Will I have to give up everything I have created in order to be married?

I get asked so much about when I will walk down the aisle that I forget it is so much more than that. Marriage is not just the walk to say "YES" because it doesn't stop there. I look at all the current issues I see around me and I wonder if I can do it. I wonder why folks are in a rush for me to deal with another situation that is out of my control. How do you define a good wife if in your life you have not seen many.

I really wish I could wrap my head around this whole thing but in the meanwhile I pray that the questions and concerns go to the person that will ask the question. No one can make a proposal happen and to rush into a marriage is not the way I want to go either.

For now let's all be happy with being here today.

Keep It To Yourself

As I sit at a networking event this guy comes over and talks to me and my friend. He was really nice. He offered to buy me a drink but no alcohol for this one.

He sat beside me and just started to talk about all kinda things. It was ok until I started I felt something wet with air. I thought maybe I had taken a daydream moment and was at the spa. No! As he was talking the spit flowed with air. Come on sir!

Be mindful when you are out to networking to not spray people.

I am just saying!