So Good

April has been so good to me so far. I let go of the drama from March and welcome all the good that God has for me. I might loose friends, change career goals, reinvent myself more times than I can count but one thing is always true God always loves Carla.

I am not perfect and I never pretend to be. My real friends, true loves and people that really respect me understand. I am who I am.

Spring is here and I am blooming in more way than one.

Thank God.....

Come on Spring

I really want to know why it is so cold. I wore a Tuesday to try to help Spring push through the cold. It didn’t work.

I am ready to not have on layers of clothing, let my toes show and take long walks.

I am asking in my best baby voice “Spring! Can you please come out and play with me?”

I missed your name

Have you ever been out and met someone but you missed that name?

How do you find out what their name is?

I met someone about a week ago and I still do not know their first name. I need some cool ideas of how to get the name out of them.

What suggestions do you have?

It is healing

I don't know if everyone has had a opportunity to listen to India Aire's new CD but I have two favorites.

Yellow
The Cure

I listen to those songs everyday and I mean it changes so much. I feel the spirit in her music and it gives me the strength to deal with what I have surrounding me. It really is amazing.

If you haven't picked it up now is the time.

I am grateful for the blessings surrounding me.

Get It Out

Currently I am dealing with some communication issues. It is causing plenty of frustration but what to do about it. Many people are now suffering from "It's All About Me" syndrome so they don't hear a word that is said.

How do you handle such people?
How do you break the communication barrier without getting out of character?

I am open to all suggestions.

I try to get things out as much as I can. Sometimes I want to do face-to-face conversations when it is something very serious. No matter what I try to get it out.

Either things will change or people are gonna be mad at all my honesty.

Coming back

I apologize that I have been in the mist of illness then traveling for work.

My life is so busy it isnt funny.

I will be back to the regular schedule March 2009

Thanks for all your support

I am making the change, What are you doing?

Stress is the silent killer. The more I listen to the radio, watch the news and read health blogs they all stress how woman are rapidly loosing their lives to heart disease.

Lately that thought has become so very real because I realize the stress that I put on my body. How I take everything so seriously but neglect to take care of my body?

With that I have now taking the Suze Orman challenge and decided to cut out somethings this month so that I can eliminate one of the causes of my stress, which is stress from thinking about finances. With the economy the way it is and everyone fearing of loosing everything the bug did hit me. I realize that most of my money that could go to credit card debt or other bills happens to be spent in a week full of lunch or dinners out. Even though it is day 3 I see a big difference in my bank account. (soon hoping to see a difference in my body)

Coming more in tune with your body is important. It is also good to reflect the things that you can change on your own without going to a doctor and asking them what do you think after you are laying in a hospital bed. We all have a chance and choice in our health.

What are you as a woman doing to cut back on stress and stay healthy?