Sharing Carla's World

All!!!!!

2012-02-10T08:07:00.000-08:00

So everyone knows that I am a only child and NO is not a word that I am fond of. I am use to getting my way in many aspects of my life so when a block is formed in front of something I desire it messes with me a bit. So I came up with something that will help me in those moments that NO occurs.

I want it all!

I want the things that I call out because I know I deserve it!

I want it all!

Sometimes it will take time and patience!

I want it all!

Did I mention? I want it all!

What do you think?

So far it calms me down and gets me focused to obtain what I really want.

Growing Pains

2012-01-31T04:03:00.001-08:00

As a child my parents always told me that I don't want to rush to become an adult. It is much more than I could ever imagine. Now that I see 30 I want to go back in time and just sleep in bed all day. It isn't the bills, work or decisions but more of relationships (maintaining, grooming, etc).

Everyday is a lesson though and I can only hope that through all I am dealing with I am growing into the woman I always dreamed to be.

Happy New Year!

2012-01-02T18:43:00.001-08:00

Claim greatness.

That's all.

2011 Reflection

2011-12-31T05:18:00.001-08:00

This has been a year of adventure. So many things that I have never experienced came up this year that has helped me grow and learn. Other events caused some tears but everyday cannot be full of sunshine. I am just thankful that I made it this far. As I close out this year I think back and look forward to the even better time I will have in 2012.

While doing some research on a new project for me I came across this nice reflection piece I thought I would share with you. The Simple Mom blog has a nice reflection sheet that I will be filling out today. It really does make you think so if you plan on doing it please be somewhere quiet. Here is the link http://simplemom.net/

Last but not least even though I didn't post much this year I appreciate you following my life. I know more is to come with the wedding, 30, and my career.

Enjoy today. Enjoy everyday

Happy New Year!

Merry Christmas

2011-12-22T07:21:00.000-08:00

I know that this is the time of year that people are running around trying to buy out the stores but I hope you aren't. I am certainly not going insane with spending. I want to start the new year off with riches instead of massive debt.

If you are out and about just remember that this season is not about who can spend more than someone else.

Let's remember that this is the time that we give thanks for the many blessings that we have. If you have an opportunity to spend time with family and friends that alone should be filling. Gifts are just things.

Love and Light

Smells Like...

2011-12-16T17:24:00.001-08:00

Certain scents and smells really do make a difference in our mood. I find myself attracted to fresh scents. I enjoy the glow in it. If you can say a scent glows?

Anyway one of my favorites is the White Tea line from Westin At Home. Not only is it fresh but it helps you relax. When you first walk into a Westin Hotel the smell takes over all your senses.

I am so glad to know folks that love me. Margaret Cook hooked me up recently with a fresh supply of goodies.

If you want to learn more about this awesome scent visit http://www.westin-hotelsathome.com/category.aspx?white-tea-aloe

You will not be sorry.

I'm an artist

2011-12-15T06:12:00.000-08:00

Yes!!!!!

It is so awesome to try new things.

This past weekend me and some friends (thanks to Diva Deb) did A Date to Paint. It was interesting. We were able to bring snacks, wine and such to enjoy. Then we took a painting that was already completed and made our own artwork based on what we saw. At first it was like I can't do that but as we worked through it the experience was very relaxing.

See my finished work beside the original.

It wasn't on my bucket list but now I can make artist off as a accomplishment.

For more details visit http://www.adatetopaint.com/

Sleepless

2011-12-11T20:22:00.000-08:00

Thoughts, ideas, task and so much more fill my mind especially at night. I thought I was doing the right thing but chilling out after a certain time so that sleep would come to me quickly. The problem is that lately sleep doesn't want to just visit me.

I love Sleepless in Seattle but our stories are much different. I feel like their are not enough hours in the day for all I want to do. I assume the best thing for me to do is try different things and see if it makes a difference.

Something has to change so I can get some sleep.

Hmmmmm.....

Feel free to post suggestions because I really need them.

The Answer is "YES"

2011-12-07T12:44:00.000-08:00

He asked and I accepted.

Now what?

Even though I have planned many things in my life planning my wedding seems to be one of the biggest challenges ever.

The thoughts that are flying through my mind are:

Big?

Small?

Budget?

Location?

Budget?

Beauty?

Budget?

What to wear?

Budget?

the list goes on.

I know the most important thing about the day is to be join union with the one of love but it is nice to have it all look good too. We will probably be doing some unique things to stand out and be different but I am super excited to have the vision that is starting to form in my mind come true.

Up next is to pick a firm date and start it up.

Pray for me.

Me

2011-09-26T16:48:00.000-07:00

Getting back to the basics.

Things will happen in your life that you can’t stop, but that’s no reason to shut out the world. There’s a purpose for the good and for the bad" – Walter Sparrow, Now and Then.

The "M" Word

2010-09-02T04:52:00.001-07:00

At this stage in my life I am focusing more on my career, deciding what I really want for myself and trying to be all that God created me to be. The balance in striving for success in those areas is hard to manage.

Then I have the other side of life that is a relationship, potentially having children one day but my reality is I don't know what that life looks like. Will I have to give up everything I have created in order to be married?

I get asked so much about when I will walk down the aisle that I forget it is so much more than that. Marriage is not just the walk to say "YES" because it doesn't stop there. I look at all the current issues I see around me and I wonder if I can do it. I wonder why folks are in a rush for me to deal with another situation that is out of my control. How do you define a good wife if in your life you have not seen many.

I really wish I could wrap my head around this whole thing but in the meanwhile I pray that the questions and concerns go to the person that will ask the question. No one can make a proposal happen and to rush into a marriage is not the way I want to go either.

For now let's all be happy with being here today.

Alexandria Cupcake hmmm

2010-08-04T11:21:00.000-07:00

I am not big on the cupcake rave but since their is a new spot new me I thought I would try it out. I wanted to be able to say I tried something different and let you know how I felt about it.

So here we go.

I ordered the Vanilla Bean cupcake. The place is very nice and clean inside. Only one table and chair though. They don't want people hanging out inside I guess.

So I got it wrapped up so that I could eat it the way I want to in a cool location.

I took the top off the cupcake and went to work. I eat the frosting first because that is my style. It was just like bean. Yummy! After most of the frosting was gone I worked on the cupcake itself. It was ok but kinda dry. I was expecting the works for $3.15.

As I got close to the end I saw a foreign object. My mama always said don't eat things that you cannot identify with. This might mean a trip back to the store.

Anyway I have decided that I should've stayed away from the cupcake rave but since I tried it I am still not impressed. I am sticking to my love for the all time favorites strawberry shortcake, pineapple upside down cake and lemon meringue pie.

Oh Well I have learned once again the hard way.

Yoga

2010-05-18T06:12:00.000-07:00

I always wanted to try yoga to see how it could benefit me.

I did it for awhile in the basement of a church but could not seem to get my body to do what the instructor displayed.

It is possible that I will try again since this is DC Yoga Week. Maybe as time has passed my body is ready to be stretched to the limits.

www.dcyogaweek.com

Keep It To Yourself

2010-05-14T15:21:00.000-07:00

As I sit at a networking event this guy comes over and talks to me and my friend. He was really nice. He offered to buy me a drink but no alcohol for this one.

He sat beside me and just started to talk about all kinda things. It was ok until I started I felt something wet with air. I thought maybe I had taken a daydream moment and was at the spa. No! As he was talking the spit flowed with air. Come on sir!

Be mindful when you are out to networking to not spray people.

I am just saying!

Happy May!

2010-05-14T15:20:00.000-07:00

It is May 2010 and it feels good.

I hope all is well with all that love and adore me.

I plan to start back up again because my life is funny....

Harmony for the Holidays

2009-12-18T21:08:00.000-08:00

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Quote

2009-12-13T16:19:00.000-08:00

Albert Schweitzer:

I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.

Reminder

2009-12-02T18:25:00.000-08:00

Each day I am reminded that it is God that has gotten me to this special point in my life.

I am:
saved
blessed
free
happy
moving in destiny

Nothing more to say.

Thankful!

2009-11-25T05:56:00.000-08:00

It is that time of year where we sit back and evaluate life. Well I sit back and evaluate my life this time of year because I like to reinvent me in the winter. I also like to make sure that I am on point with the goals I have set for myself.

Besides the business and outer success stories I have a wonderful list of things to be thankful for.

My thanks are for:
Life
Intelligence
Strength
Truth
Family
Friendship
Love
Fun
Travel
Nature
Peace
Harmony
Quiet moments
and so much more.

What are you thankful for today?

It is a good feeling to see all you have and can give thanks for.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Place - Music

2009-11-19T23:29:00.000-08:00

What is one of the best ways to release stress and unwind?

What can take you to another place?

Most times a song or a particular artist can help you escape all the drama of the world.

Currently I have a few artist that really lift me no matter what. This includes:
India Aire
Jill Scott
Kem
Luther Vandross
Michael Jackson
John Mayer
Norah Jones
John Legend

It is something about the lyrics that make me feel they understand and want me to smile. I don't know what your favorite artist or song is but take a moment out of your day to enjoy whatever that is. You deserve it!

We Salute You!

2009-11-11T13:45:00.000-08:00

Just imagine being a young man/woman who is told that you will be going to war. No not a fight at the corner of your neighborhood but fighting in essence for your life.

Do you see it?
Do you feel the fear?
Can you comprehend the complexity of the situation.

Today is Veterans Day and many of the men/women that have served or are serving are not being acknowledged. Why do we not see the value in all they have sacrificed?

If you know someone that has served or is serving take a moment out of your day to share your appreciation for all they do. They give more than we can ever imagine.

For all my wonderful family and friends that have given all they can for us

I Salute You!

Release and Revive

2009-11-04T05:39:00.000-08:00

So many people are overweight and unhealthy in the community. It has become a trend to just do what you can but be happy with the way you are.

You should be happy with the way you are but also remember to do all you can to take care of your health.

If your suffer from :constipation, leaky bowel syndrome, digestive distress, gas & bloating, skin disorders, irritable bowel syndrome, eating disorders, candida (yeast infections), allergies, muscle/joint pain, arthritis, hypertension, fibromyalgia, spastic colon, chronic breath odor, chronic fatigue, chronic body odor, headaches, toxic chemical exposures, acne, chronic skin problems, abdominal gas and bloating, lower back pain, sciatic pain, low resistance to colds and infections, low energy and vitality ... then you may need to cleanse your body's elimination system. (information from tbn-colon.com/about-ch.html

It might be time to consider some basic and healthy options for your body. For instance, colon hydrotherapy, fasting, raw food diet and other processes that will clean your intestine so that you can relieve your body of the additional waste it is holding onto.

Locate a office in your surrounding area and have a discussion with someone about your goals for your health by doing natural changes to see what you could potentially change. It could be the lifechanging task that will take you out of the negative statistics.

Wednesday Wisdom

2009-10-14T06:30:00.001-07:00

Love now for the next moment is not promised.

We are seeing a lot of death across the world. Don't live in regret. Show and tell those you care about how much they mean to you now while you are able to share time with them.

Peace and Blessings.

Emergency Fund Saving

2009-10-07T05:32:00.001-07:00

I am currently taking a class with Financial Peace University (Dave Ramsey) and it is interesting to hear someone that hit bottom share the tips that helped him get back on top. It is also amazing that through it all he was able to keep his family structure in order. Most time finances can break a relationship down.

As I am taking the class I see how I have been careless with money. I have always had the easy come easy go mentally to it. Ramsey wants to make sure that we pay ourselves first. We don’t imagine that is possible because bills have to be paid but if we took the time to put something on the side it could still develop the emergency fund that every household should have.

Do you have anything stored away for a rainy day?
Do you have money that you can access quickly when needed?

Ramsey encourages that you at least have $1000.00 saved away. That could deal with car issues, unexpected bill, etc. The ultimate goal is to have 6-8 months of living expenses saved. The secret is to save because an emergency is never planned but you can be prepared.

For more information visit www.daveramsey.com

Motivation

2009-09-23T18:23:00.000-07:00

The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch on youtube.

Wednesday Wisdom 9/16/09

2009-09-16T18:22:00.001-07:00

If you flow in your purpose your destiny will unfold before your eyes.

Meditate

2009-09-02T09:02:00.000-07:00

I notice that most of my surrounding friends and family are on rush mode. We are all running to get things done because we feel the end is near.

Are we able to enjoy every experience when we do this?
Do we feel happy?

Most of us in our days forget to take care of ourselves or the important task that we really do need to tend to.

For instance:

Eating 3 meals a day
Drinking water
Exercising
Reading
Writing
Paying Bills ontime
etc.

Maybe it is time to adapt meditation in the daily routine so that it becomes apart of you like breathing. It will help clear your mind so that you can really focus on your task, be good to yourself and cut down on stress.

It only takes a moment.

For those of you that do not know much about meditation here is a quick crash course
Sit in a comfortable position (in your office chair, the couch, car, etc
Take deep breathes (focus on counting in 1.2.3.4.5/out 1.2.3.4.5)
You may feel funny at first but if you really just focus on breathing you will soon be taken away to another place. That is meditation.

Try it!

Exhausted

2009-08-26T11:12:00.000-07:00

This heat really does drain the energy.

Somethings I do to keep cool
Wear light free clothing
Drink plenty of water
Not hang out in the street

These are some key things to remember.

Do you have any suggestions? Please add to the comments.

Brighter Side

2009-08-20T05:39:00.000-07:00

Even when things seem bad a silver lining can be found.

Things can always be worse...

Remember this when you are dealing with life.

This too shall pass.

Stay Bug Free

2009-07-15T12:09:00.000-07:00

Ok so now that summer is here people are having the crab feast, cookouts, white affairs and more outside. It is also the time when you need to protect yourself from bugs.

I want to share one of my top picks for the summer especially if you are doing a lot of outdoor events.

Skin So Soft (Original) Oil. It has a very soft smell and keeps the bugs off of you. I have been using it for awhile and I have been missing all the bites that everyone else is getting.

If you want to learn more about it go to youravon.com/carlathorpe.

I hope this helps keeps the bites away from you.

Always

2009-07-08T11:11:00.000-07:00

I do not really know what to say.

MJ's service touched my heart in such a unique way. The love he showed us all and the love we have in our hearts for him is so strong.

I just want to say "I love you"
I am nowhere near perfect but I hope that our time together has meant something. I hope you know that I strive to stay connected and loving to all those people that touch me.

When you go throughout your day remember love in all that you do.

Peace.

Love You MJ

2009-07-01T06:16:00.000-07:00

Being an only child I had to find ways to entertain myself. TV didn’t really work for me since whenever I got in trouble my mother would remove the TV from my room. I had to find something that was lasting and fun for me. I always enjoyed music so it was natural for that to become my best friend. I would play the radio anytime I could or a good CD.

When I was heard Michael Jackson my heart would skip a beat. It is like he lived in the same world that I did. He always talked of being alone but hoped for the love of his life to come. I decided I would fill his void. I had posters, the “Barbie” doll, T-Shirts and more of my future husband Michael Jackson. When he did his specials I would record them and watch my favorite parts everyday. I imagined our wedding day, him being happy with me and the life I would have with someone that could make you dream of the greatest love ever.

Through the years my love never changed even though he did. His physical appearance boggled me but I knew it was done out of his pain. It is sad that he didn’t release the pain from childhood or ever know what it was like to be happy with the way he was. Just knowing how down on himself he was makes me want to cry. How can someone with so much magic not recognize the blessings?

With Michael’s death I hope to always embrace the person I am. No matter what happens to me physically or externally I pray to always know love. I think that if Michael would’ve found a way to embrace all he was then he would not be so sad.

I will forever have a special place in my heart for Michael. He was my first love.

Happy To Announce

2009-06-23T21:29:00.000-07:00

After much work and prayer I am now the

DC Romance Travel Examiner
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Check me out!

Quote

2009-06-10T10:21:00.000-07:00

Don't wait for the things you desire to come your way. Make It Happen!

Precious

Home Search

2009-06-08T06:01:00.000-07:00

Everyone is saying that today's market is perfect for the first time home buyer.

I have decided to try my luck at finding a property that can work for me. I need space since I conduct three businesses, comfort, peace and a wonderful price so I can live and also enjoy my home.

I recently went on my first house viewing with my realtor. She is apart of www.MetroSalesTeam.com. They are wonderful.

So I learned about Short Sales and Forclosures. The Short Sale is the last option for me because most of the locations will be no assistance with closing cost and the property is sold as is. Now the forclosure if the contract is written correctly can still be a good look but it depends on the condition that people left the house in. I viewed on eviction and you could tell they were mad. They took the applicances, messed up the carpet and left trash everywhere. I want a home but not that bad.

I know I will be able to get a team together to help with my new project but somethings I refuse to deal with.

This is a wonderful adventure. It is making me feel more like a grown up.

I will continue to share on this journey. I know my home is calling my name.

Thank you Sunshine...

2009-05-28T08:24:00.001-07:00

So much fun

I want to Thank You for being here and sharing in all the wonderful things that I am experiencing.

This next month is on and poppin with events, travel and opportunities for me to share with you. I know I get caught up in all that is going on but I will be sure to stop through and let you know how things are going.

For the current scoop
Praising and loving all the God is doing
Working on a wedding May 30
Working at the Spring Extravaganza
Searching for the first house
Smiles and Giggles everyday…

Hugs and Kisses
Precious

Out

2009-05-19T12:38:00.000-07:00

I am taking a much needed mini vacation to clear my mind and regroup. It has been busy in a great way but is only about to get busier.

I am in the process of doing so many things. Such being:
Solo event "Speed Mixer"
Purchasing a home
Traveling
Planning a wedding
Avon
Event lady ( I am addicted to goodie bags)
and more...

I will hit you up next week with more of my world.

Have a great 3 day weekend!

Strength Quote

2009-05-13T08:33:00.000-07:00

“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength.”

by August Wilson

Breast Cancer Network Of Strength Walk (May 10th in DC)

2009-05-06T09:18:00.000-07:00

I will be walking with the Breast Cancer Network of Strength, an organizationthat provides immediate emotional relief to anyone affected by breastcancer. The walk is May 10, 2009 at 9am. This is just one of the many ways I am donating my time to give back to the community.

Through help from family and friends I raised Network of Strength offers outreach programs, breast health awarenessworkshops, wigs and prostheses for women with limited resources, andadvocacy on policies related to breast cancer. Their YourShoes™ 24/7 BreastCancer Support Center is the country’s only toll-free breast cancer hotlinestaffed entirely by trained peer counselors who are breast cancersurvivors.

For more information visit my page:
http://walk.networkofstrength.org/Page.aspx?pid=248&frsid=11375

Can you feel the heat? Try to stay cool.

2009-04-30T05:08:00.000-07:00

If you are in the DMV I know you felt the great heat we had for the past couple of days.

It was no joke and kept me tired.

Here are some cool tips for the hot days:
Stay hydrated (keep your water near you. Try not to use plastic bottles, use the glass bottles instead.)
Wear cool clothing (Try not to wear too many layers. It only makes you hotter.)
Don't stand in the sun long (It is already hot and if you stand outside in the sun it will only makes things worse and also increase your risk of skin disesase.)

I know I will be doing all these things so I can continue to move and shake.

Until next time...

Road Trip

2009-04-15T10:51:00.000-07:00

When is the last time you hit the open road?

It can be one of the most rewarding adventures in life. You can plan it or decide to go with the flow.

To me it is a time of escape. Nothing matters but you the road.

The adventure is never ending with a roadtrip.

Everything is Well

2009-04-09T11:08:00.000-07:00

Ok so I am more than overjoyed with the way April is going. I have been meeting people that are like me busier than ever but determined to enjoy life.

My company is taking some wonderful steps to help business owners, brides and more to reach their goals.

I cannot complain at all because it doesn't have to be with way.

I will have a more detailed check in next week. I am still working on some developments.

Blog Ya Soon

So Good

2009-04-03T05:30:00.001-07:00

April has been so good to me so far. I let go of the drama from March and welcome all the good that God has for me. I might loose friends, change career goals, reinvent myself more times than I can count but one thing is always true God always loves Carla.

I am not perfect and I never pretend to be. My real friends, true loves and people that really respect me understand. I am who I am.

Spring is here and I am blooming in more way than one.

Thank God.....

Come on Spring

2009-03-25T07:26:00.000-07:00

I really want to know why it is so cold. I wore a Tuesday to try to help Spring push through the cold. It didn’t work.

I am ready to not have on layers of clothing, let my toes show and take long walks.

I am asking in my best baby voice “Spring! Can you please come out and play with me?”

I missed your name

2009-03-18T15:31:00.000-07:00

Have you ever been out and met someone but you missed that name?

How do you find out what their name is?

I met someone about a week ago and I still do not know their first name. I need some cool ideas of how to get the name out of them.

What suggestions do you have?

It is healing

2009-03-11T13:02:00.000-07:00

I don't know if everyone has had a opportunity to listen to India Aire's new CD but I have two favorites.

Yellow
The Cure

I listen to those songs everyday and I mean it changes so much. I feel the spirit in her music and it gives me the strength to deal with what I have surrounding me. It really is amazing.

If you haven't picked it up now is the time.

I am grateful for the blessings surrounding me.

Get It Out

2009-03-06T23:03:00.000-08:00

Currently I am dealing with some communication issues. It is causing plenty of frustration but what to do about it. Many people are now suffering from "It's All About Me" syndrome so they don't hear a word that is said.

How do you handle such people?
How do you break the communication barrier without getting out of character?

I am open to all suggestions.

I try to get things out as much as I can. Sometimes I want to do face-to-face conversations when it is something very serious. No matter what I try to get it out.

Either things will change or people are gonna be mad at all my honesty.

Coming back

2009-02-26T14:26:00.001-08:00

I apologize that I have been in the mist of illness then traveling for work.

My life is so busy it isnt funny.

I will be back to the regular schedule March 2009

Thanks for all your support

I am making the change, What are you doing?

2009-02-03T14:36:00.001-08:00

Stress is the silent killer. The more I listen to the radio, watch the news and read health blogs they all stress how woman are rapidly loosing their lives to heart disease.

Lately that thought has become so very real because I realize the stress that I put on my body. How I take everything so seriously but neglect to take care of my body?

With that I have now taking the Suze Orman challenge and decided to cut out somethings this month so that I can eliminate one of the causes of my stress, which is stress from thinking about finances. With the economy the way it is and everyone fearing of loosing everything the bug did hit me. I realize that most of my money that could go to credit card debt or other bills happens to be spent in a week full of lunch or dinners out. Even though it is day 3 I see a big difference in my bank account. (soon hoping to see a difference in my body)

Coming more in tune with your body is important. It is also good to reflect the things that you can change on your own without going to a doctor and asking them what do you think after you are laying in a hospital bed. We all have a chance and choice in our health.

What are you as a woman doing to cut back on stress and stay healthy?

Where were you for Inauguration

2009-01-21T11:53:00.001-08:00

I was home letting the visitors enjoy the space on the mall. I couldn't help but to feel overwhelmed by the joy in every ones heart. We came together and made a difference that will direct our lives in a new direction. It made me believe even more that anything is possible in my life and as a community.

I am very proud of all the work I have done to help make this moment happy.

I love you
God Bless us all.

Wednesday Wisdom - Honesty

2009-01-14T20:13:00.000-08:00

I am noticing that a lot of people are not honest about their feelings with things people say, events and other things that take place between family and friends.

If you love someone be strong enough to tell them the truth. Let what is in your heart come out and let the laws of the land deal with the rest. When you lie it hurts more than when you are honest with those around you.

If you have someone you need to share something with it is no time like today to release and move on.

I appreciate your honesty

Wednesday Wisdom - Being Still - The Outcome....

2009-01-07T07:31:00.000-08:00

Ok so last year had so many ups and downs. I felt like I lost my direction and desire to really take charge of my life and organize things. Nothing was going as I hoped. I felt very alone and without hope.

A voice told me “be still.”

Now if me moving and working wasn’t getting me the things I wanted how in the world would be still help me push forward to the next level.

A voice told me “be still.”

Obviously it was worth a try to list and see what could take place. So I was still. For majority of December I took time to define myself, what my goals are, what I want to do, etc. I wasn’t stressed, I didn’t feel low, and things that I thought I lost were found.

Being still for me was a renewal of the things that got jumbled up in the things around me. Giving too much of myself had me drained.

So in the first official week of 2009 I have gotten back in the game of life and really am making strides towards what I really want.

Main things happening in 09 for me are:
Wedding coordinating – my company added this service October 2008
Completing my two books – (I know it is about time)
Purchasing my first home
Sponsoring workshops and events that promote women wellness
Enjoying every moment in life

What is happening with you?

Celebrate!!!

2009-01-01T07:50:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year!!!

Today as a new year is upon us let us reflect, plan, and go forward into our destiny.

Peace and Blessings

Special Time

2008-12-18T05:55:00.000-08:00

I know that the weight of the recession is beginning to hit a lot of people. I heard on the radio one lady say that her kids will only be getting heat and food for this christmas.

The one thing that I see in what people feel is such a horribe situation is that we are forced to remember that this season is not about the gifts you get. For so many years parents ran around and made themselves go broke to make sure their children have toys. Well now many are on a fixed budget so spending money on toys is not a option. That can seem bad but it actually makes us all spend more time with our family and not stressing about how much debt we created.

This special time of year is about love so as you sit at home or where ever you decide to be love whomever you are with. That is worth much more than your money could buy.

Is it me?

2008-12-11T18:05:00.000-08:00

I am a only child. Sometimes the only child comes out and I don't want to be bothered with other people. I learned a long time ago that being with just "me" is not a problem.

In the adult world though instead of just being the only child I have turned into the woman that shuts down. The one with a attitude. The person who does better off without anyone bothering her. Is that how I am seen?

I really feel like people get me confused. I can play and joke all day with the best of them but I am serious about my business. I am serious about what I produce and support.

Is that the reason people start acting brand new around me? Am I suppose to lower my leader characteristics because other people don't want to give 100%.

If that is the case then I guess I am guilty.

It is me and I am that:
strong
professional
serious
organized
"Power House" that you either want to be around or would rather hate on.

Hmmmmm

Looking With the Naked Eye by Stacey Barlow

2008-12-03T07:09:00.000-08:00

Our visions start when we are little children. Around the age of five, everyone has had an imaginary friend growing up. This teaches us how to play alone when our parents may have been too busy or we just didn’t have anyone around our age to play with. As we get older, we start thinking about what goals and dreams we desire to accomplish. Television is a part of that vision because a few of us tend to emulate our favorite entertainers. We watch what characters they play and feel like, at times that this character is a good character to portray while growing.

I grew up wanting to be many different things in life. My first attraction was becoming a firefighter, then a tennis player. In my teen years, it was to become a detective after reading in a well-known African American magazine about a female detective in New York. Then while listening to the radio, I decided that I wanted to become a DJ now known as radio personalities. In my late teens, I was very interested in politics. I loved Civics and told myself that I would become a lobbyist and work in the white house.
Always having the love of English, my interests started to change without me even thinking about it. I ended up working at the Literature and Language Department when I went off to college, and when I returned, I worked as a substitute teacher. Within those years, I had been writing poetry, entering contests and receiving awards. A suggestion made by my sister that I need to do something with my work. I took the necessary steps to get started. I sat down one day and had a revelation. Without realizing it, my life become full circle. In this process, I was writing down things that I wanted to accomplish. I found that list earlier this year.

With life’s vicissitudes, you may have gone through a struggle whether is be good or bad. When you write things down what you want out of life that is a step in the right direct. All you have to do is manifest it. Webster’s dictionary states that a visionary is a person who has fantastic ideas but the ideas are not real.

If you have very good ideas, let those ideas come to life by networking with people in your circle, but be careful whom you tell your visions to because they may not be apt to listen and later take your dreams as their own. Let us change the meaning of visionary, show the world what we have seen, and desire to do.

Persevere Newsletter

2008-12-01T07:51:00.000-08:00

The newest issue of Persevere Newsletter has been released. If you would like to see a copy of the bi-monthly newsletter email perseverenews@gmail.com.

Currently they are looking for writers, editors, and photographers that wish to submit work.

Thanks much!

A moment in time

2008-11-19T17:06:00.000-08:00

One of my favorite songs is "Do You Know" sung by Diana Ross.

I am still trying to find out where I want to be in the world.

Do you know?

Evaluate and Correct

2008-11-17T12:24:00.001-08:00

People are so use to living outside of their means that now that they are forced to see the results of their actions it is scary. Everyone is walking around talking about what they don't have and what they cannot buy instead of being happy with all the (things) they accumulated. People are more concerned with stuff than the things that are suppose to matter most like:
Health
Family
Freedom
Friendship
etc.

What is really going on?

In the mist of getting decent jobs and being able to do more than previous generations people are really losing their minds.

It hurts to see people more concerned about a $500.00 bag than finding out why they have a pain in their chest. That bag won’t save you. Better yet being so worried about what other people think people have a debt of 500, 000.00 when they only make 60,000.00 a year. Come on!

Now is the time for everyone to learn the lesson. Check wallets and priorities so that instead of feeling the sting of the changes happening around the U.S. people are giving valuable advice and thriving still.

Add to the Obama Collection

2008-11-14T05:43:00.001-08:00

If you are like me and my family we have been collecting magazines and newspapers about Obama being President Elect. Yesterday in Barnes & Noble I found a magazine that was created of pictures, snippets from speeches and much more from Obama. It is in the magazine (news stand) section for $7.99. If you would like to see what this looks like let me know.

I just thought I would share just in case someone else was collecting documents to preserve for the generations to come.

Announcement

2008-11-09T15:16:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday To Me!!!!

Live your life!

Closing out 26

2008-11-08T18:47:00.000-08:00

Leaving my 26 is unlike leaving any other year. I am sitting here recapping the good, bad, and amazing parts of my life. I have done so much and grown in ways that I didn't think I could. It is still amazing to me that a year has passed and I am still standing.

Lessons learned in 26:
You have to be a grown up because no one will take care of my business.Sometimes we have to let people go in order for them to see how much a value you are.
It is important to have order so that you can continue to move forward.
When you sit still you can learn even more than when you speak.
People care about their passions more than yours.
Do unto others as you would have things done to or for you is a foolish statement.
When you allow those around you to change who you are, you loose not them.
Finding your destiny is truly a blessing.
Doing things for yourself is one of the biggest rewards you can do for yourself.
You cannot allow other people emotions or feelings effect how you live.
You can conquer the world for yourself better than you can for others.

After much observation i know what I want to take into 27. I may loose more so called friends but I deserve happiness no matter what has to happen for me to achieve it. For 26 years I have cared for others and been used/abused so since my spirit is tired change has come.

I want to do more such as:
Finish, have edited and publish my mini story Jitters.
Write and maybe complete my book Striving for Something More.
Put quality time into my business consulting firm.
Work on either a certification or degree (maybe both).
Act like I know and change my eating habits so I can continue to take over the world.
Stay as organized as I canBe the me in my dreams.
Really pursue my writing career because it is my blessing and I love it.
Pick 3 social groups to be active inPlan my calendar to include what I need to do instead of just supporting others.
Make all my partnerships work and continue to be tracked.
Either be with or without my destiny,
Grow my spirit and cherish what I am.
Spend time with family and friends.
Travel to new exciting places (I have my passport).

Live my life!

See u in 27!

Information for Presidential Inauguration 09

2008-11-05T11:15:00.000-08:00

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Wednesday Wisdom - Experience Election 08

2008-11-05T05:56:00.001-08:00

I had the great pleasure of working the polls yesterday because I really wanted to make sure that at least in my area votes were processed correctly and things got done.

People were outside before we even got there at 5am. For most of the morning until about 11am the line was wrapped around the building.

At 5pm I announced that Obama would be president just because you could see that his supporters came out. McCain poll watchers didn't even show up at all. Another indication to me.

It was a experience that I will never forget.

I didn't make it to a party but I was overjoyed that we all came together to make Barack Obama President-Elect.

What was your experience?

What do we do next to support our new president?

Time to Share

2008-10-25T15:55:00.000-07:00

I have been meeting a lot of people. I also said this year I would do better with staying connected with family and friends.

So what better way to keep everyone updated then by having a blog.

I hope you enjoy my world as much as I do.

Take care and I look forward to the comments